Despite my long-standing tradition of birthday goals, this year I hesitated to make a “28 Before 28” list. I’m in the process of trying to simplify my life. I’m slashing my ‘to-do’ lists and ‘to-be’ lists. But the good ol’ birthday goals seemed to make the cut, so long as I frame them with a generous spirit!
- Memorize Austin’s phone number
We’ve been together for four years. Maybe it is time?
- Take vitamins (D and Calcium)
I’ve had a vitamin D deficiency for as long as I’ve known. Only recently have I read about some of the health consequences. This is my attempt to kick some drowsiness out of my life.
- Letter writing
This goal carries over through the years. I’m not giving up on it.
- Have 415 ‘read’ books on my Goodreads shelf.
It is always a mad dash to hit my 25 read books a year goal. I’m slashing it to 15, and adding some big books to my goodreads list.
- Read Infinite Jest
Why? Because it is everyone’s favorite book they can’t recommend.
- Read Les Miserables
Last year, I read War and Peace. I feel like this is the logical next step.
- Read Don Quixote
Can you tell this is the year of big books?
- Take 3 NYC trips
I’m crushing hard on NYC right now. It is a 4-hour train-ride away!
- Bike to Walden Pond
I’m upgrading to a real bike soon. The logical step is to ride to my favorite place outside of Boston.
- See Hamilton
- Re-Read my childhood journals
I’ve kept a pretty regular journal throughout my life. I’d like to comb the pages and look for emerging thinking patterns.
- Finish draft 1 of my Honey Year memoir
I’ve written 85,000 words, which is about 2/3 of a first draft. Power to the end!
- Put out clothes the night before
Mornings are the worst. THE worst. Putting clothes out the night before could cut out some stress and decision making from my morning routine.
- Go leaf peeping
It’s almost time for a fall retreat with brilliant leaves. Autumn is the best time to be in New England.
- Research MFA programs
I’ve waffled, but I think I’m 90% committed to pursuing an MFA. I want to research programs and take the GRE before my next birthday.
- Spend a day on a literary tour of Greater Boston
Besides the obvious transcendentalists, a few epic writers have houses in the area: Edith Wharton, E.E. Cummings, William Longfellow, etc.).
- Collect poems
I used to memorize poems. I’d like to collect the ones I have memorized into a notebook to brush up from time to time.
- Surround myself with more fresh flowers
Part 1: Get over my omnipresent buyer’s remorse. Part 2: Make the apartment pretty.
- Get a fancy alarm clock
Remember how mornings are the worst? I’ll try anything. Right now, I’m leaning towards this one.
- Revive yoga habits
Once upon a time, I could touch my toes. I’d like to get there again.
- Hit the 30 countries mark
I don’t like counting countries. I don’t think the three hours I spent in a tourist market in Laos can be compared to the six months I spend in India. All the same, I’ve been to 29 countries. I’m looking forward to trips this year to Liberia, (and potentially) Iceland, Kenya, and Nigeria.
Last year I wrote 50,000 words for National Novel Writing Month! I’m up for the challenge or an equivalent again.
- Get a real purse
I think I may be a little too old to be hauling my college backpack around town.
- Maintain a healthy work/life balance
I love my new job! But I also like my life outside of work. I’m going to set up better boundaries and figure out my own limits.
- Better define “my style”
I don’t think I ever really learned how to dress myself. I’m so indecisive I find shopping dreadful. But now that I’m sailing towards 30, it is time to be more proactive about my wardrobe. I’m open to books, websites, and other helpful suggestions.
- Work on my posture
I’m a sloucher. My friend told me there’s a Fitbit for this!
- Keep up my Instagram and photography
I have so many photos from my travels and have been posting them on @deliberate_wanderer. I fell off schedule when I started my new job, but I’d like to get back on the horse. I think it is important to document life.
- Reach out to friends and family
Often busy-Rachel gets reclusive and waits for other people to initiate things. I’d like to prioritize my relationships and get outside of myself more. For example, I’d like to initiate one friend dinner a month and keep a calling schedule for faraway friends and family. At the end of the day, relationships are more important to me than anything else.